Thursday, 8th April, 2021
I think about my blog every day. I think about writing for it every day. A day becomes a week becomes a month. I’m at once restless and lethargic, and how do I come to terms with that?
I’m not exactly sure.
My mother always told me, Janice, you think too much. She was right. What I think most about is other people. Who are they? What are they doing? Why don’t I know them? Where do they live? What do they eat? What are their lives when they are not in front of me, inside my head? Yes, all of that and more.
The short version of the story is I’m not getting out much and I’m not seeing that many people. Lockdowns combined with a deteriorating knee keep me indoors and away from things I normally love to do. I try to think about people who have written whole books while being (what I consider) prisoners of home and even bed. My hat’s off to them. Yes, the stories are still in my head but I lack the motivation. I’ve heard that inspiration is something being taken in, and motivation is about movement – a driving force. Motivation is more closely connected to external stimuli, while inspiration is based on the internal stimuli. I’d say that right now I do feel inspired, but not really motivated. So if I’m not getting out that much, external stimuli are dampened, and the thoughts stay inside my head. So let’s get them out a bit.
I say I haven’t been out much, but I’m blessed by living in an area that is infinitely walkable (even now, and even though that might be limited) and infinitely fascinating. Those who feel at one with nature have a hard time understanding that. In nature I understand the peace and beauty, but as large as the vista might be, it’s harder for me to examine. Where are the people? Maybe I don’t want to face the person who is there – me. Hmm.
Right now ‘me’ is a person who can barely walk. My knee has given up and more than a few minutes on it becomes unbearably painful. Except I do bear it, and don’t want to. I’m doing my best. If I don’t try, then I’m missing out on so many things. Throughout the pandemic, I’ve managed what I could. Now my radius is shrinking and I’ll still do what I can. So let’s look at what I’ve managed to do and think positive and look ahead.
Not in order but a smattering of life chez moi at the moment.
Tesco Morning Lane. In just one year the world has changed. Shopping is a new experience and sometimes it feels like it was always like this, especially when I see people looking like they are used to it.
Lockdown cooking continues and I’ve managed to make a few new things over the weeks. Some of them will stay on the menu, while others were a fun experiment but not worth it.
There are reasons to feel discouraged these days. My stomach is chronically upset and I don’t know why. Thinking about the reasons isn’t pleasant so I’m having tests early next month. I’m so not looking forward to that, but it has to be done. Then my knee has kept me indoors far too much. Even there, I’m not pain-free. Walking or standing about indoors can be just as uncomfortable and worrying. My XRay showed that I now have severe arthritis and that’s the reason I cant bear any weight. I’m waiting to see what can be done about this – for now I’m walking with one crutch outside and hobbling around inside – it feels like I’ve been waiting a long time.
So back to inspiration. This morning out of my window, I saw something that made me look deep within myself. A man, walking with two crutches, very slowly made his way across the road towards me. The traffic stopped and waited patiently, then a cyclist on the pavement stopped too, as if in deference, even after the man was behind him – he stayed for a while, just looking. The man continued walking determinedly. I felt humble.