Saturday, 26 September, 2026
In this blog post, I’m reflecting on my past a bit. You’ve been warned.
Bluehost is reminding me that it’s been another year, and they want more money. I’m not a fan of monetising what amounts to a private journal sometimes, but I’m starting to see the beauty in it. I write a lot and could find a topic, but not sure I have the energy for it, to be honest. Seems to be a full-time job. I actually have two cousins (well, daughters of a cousin, which is what again…?) who run successful social media accounts. At a funeral reception before I left London, I almost turned fangirly when re-meeting them. Many years ago, forget how long but I should definitely dig it up, I wrote an article about blogging. At that time it was a completely unknown term. An online friend of a friend whom I interviewed told me about a concept now known as independent journalism. He talked about how “in the future” people on the street would be the ones to deliver news, as it happened, before the papers printed and spun it. I thought it a curious idea at the time, but I also thought how very obvious it seemed. Twitter was just a budding site then. I hung on silly things like Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore giving blow-by-blow accounts of their seemingly ordinary home life, Tweeting back and forth like a competition, and I didn’t have to dig for them since there were so few accounts to follow. A few people, including me, would tweet to Kirstie Alley, and suddenly we became her little cabal when she developed Phitter, something a Google search won’t even show me anymore. When she turned a bit weird and then when she died, it felt like a personal loss. Social media has evolved, but not necessarily in the best way.


The garden next door is at its peak, and I’m waiting for the harvest, although I’m not invited. It will be a long winter. The other day, quite by chance, I looked outside to see that the Old Man was visiting “my” garden. I wonder what he was thinking.

I’ve had a flurry of dining out opportunities. Some fancier than others. Here’s some news, though. I’m invited to dine downstairs as a reward for “taking care of things” while the restaurant was closed. Stay tuned. Could be interesting.


I have yet to do my brief street art tour at the western end of Little Portugal, but I have been capturing a few familiar sights around town. Must slot in that LP visit soon.




Meeting with my niece’s friend, Mandy, brought back some great memories of living in San Francisco – a really precious time in my life. Love that city. My niece, Mandy, and I had gone away for a few days there together way back when. We had the best time. I immediately dug out my photos Shortly afterwards, my brother brought up San Francisco again and it felt like one of those happy coincidences.

I had a great boyfriend in San Francisco (a story for another time maybe), and we’re still in touch – um…57 years later. I owed him an email:
(edited)Today my brother was talking about visiting me in San Francisco in the Union Street hotel place. It brought back all kinds of memories; I remember so much and yet not enough. He mentioned getting a salad in a place called Minimum Daily Requirement. Do you remember the name of that restaurant that everyone in that place ate at? Was it there? It was always lentil soup and bread and butter as far as I remember. I did look it up to see if I could find it online, even as a historical place, but nothing came up. That made me think about cruising through the supermarket and eating food before I got to the cash register. I think you weren’t keen on me doing that, but I was hungry and broke. I don’t remember how long I had to wait for my first wages and finally being able to eat properly. Here’s another thing that happened – one of the guys I stayed with before I eventually got a shared room in that place worked in a shop on Fisherman’s Wharf. I love going down there, but one of the things that happened was that I picked up a lot of crazy junk really to decorate my places with, and he never charged me anything but told me to just walk out. Thinking back, that was all wrong, but at the time it seemed sort of normal. What days they were. Also remembering how we all lived like we were in a hippie commune with everyone sharing what we had and spending time in each other’s rooms. The hippie times were dwindling, but I remember that outside on the streets I often saw Barefoot hippies with crazy clothes, and their barefoot children traipsing through North Beach or sitting in Washington Square Park. I wish I had taken photos in those days. The fact I didn’t is just crazy to me.
To my brother I wrote (edited): It was a “hotel” room, more like a doss house. I can still smell it sometimes. There was one toilet, one kitchen, and one shower room on each floor. That’s where I met Txxx, newly arrived from Tokyo – he lived one floor down. If that’s the name of the restaurant, I don’t remember, but we were there a lot because it sold lentil soup with bread very cheaply and I didn’t have any wages at first. Everyone knew each other in there – Lots of hippies. We shared everything. The hippy movement was in its last days, but I remember a lot.
The memories tumble in if I let them. I can say that my life has been a reflection of the incredible times I’ve lived through, post-war existence among ruins in East London, hitting just the right age at the beginning of the Mods and Rockers, Swinging 60s London where I was the most innocent of groupies, and Liverpool when it was the ‘centre of the universe’ as my friend’s husband reminded me the last time I saw him there, arriving in the emergent city of Toronto (and hating it for sooo long before I made friends and got my musician boyfriend, who I realised later was a selfish ass), living in Orange County, North Hollywood and San Francisco when we were all flower children, Living in a Toronto commune when I went back …I’ll leave it there before I’m lost in the past.
I’ve done a few walks recently and will share the photos soon. I’m delighted to get out, no matter how briefly. This makes me think about how much walking I’d be able to do in San Francisco now. Those hills would certainly be more than a challenge. I’m just so happy I got to experience them back when my legs felt the pain, but every step was worth it.


















































































